Remember that you’ll be sending postcards out "forever". In other words, you will send out cards every four to six weeks, UNTIL you have your adopted child in your arms!
(Don’t stop mailing postcards just because you found a Birthmom and are waiting for the child’s birth. Keep sending them UNTIL the baby is in your arms. Trust me on this one!)
And then you will still have one more postcard to send...Your "GREAT NEWS" postcard. You MUST tell everyone that your dreams have been fulfilled.
This will also let them know to stop looking for an adoption opportunity for you.