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OK…Let Me Explain
After my wife’s emergency hysterectomy at the age of 27, we took two years to make the big decision to pursue parenthood through adoption. It was New Years Day when we both came to the same conclusion at the same time. We were going to GO FOR IT.
We thought, "What a great way to start a new year." So we began our adoption search like most people do. We opened our local yellow page directory and started to call local adoption agencies.
The first agency focused on Korean adoptions.
"Unfortunately", they said, "our Korean program is rather slow now, and we are not currently taking applications." In fact they said it would be one to two years before we could register an application! What? Just to file a registration form? Our hearts sank.
Not to be discouraged, we called another agency.
This time we were told that they only took applications once each year. For that particular year, it would be March 20th. As it was January 2nd when I called, we would have to wait 2 1⁄2 months just for the "Application meeting".
Oh ... and if that wasn’t bad enough, only 40 to 50 people would be allowed in their meeting. So if they had more than 50 people interested, they would randomly draw names to pick who could attend. The agency representative also reminded us that the waiting time for a healthy domestic infant was about 2 to 3 years.
Our hearts sank further.
As we continued to call, our hearts continued to sink. Could this really be the case? Two, three . . . even four years? We were heartbroken.
Since you are reading this book, I am sure you have similar stories, similar discouragements, similar heart breaks.
BUT, I am here to tell you…
THERE IS HOPE!
It does not have to take three or even two years to find your domestic child to adopt. When you take control of the search for the Birthmom of your future adopted child, it can happen in months rather than years.
Actually…they are right if you play by their rules!
But with this book, you won’t play by their rules anymore. This book will teach you how to break free of the conventions of a "normal" adoption search. You will conduct your Birthmom search on YOUR TERMS.
You will take control of your search and dramatically shorten your Journey to Adoption!
And of course, every element of your adoption plan will strictly adhere to the letter and spirit of the laws for your state and for the federal government.
NEVER will you jeopardize the legal basis of your child’s adoption. Your child’s adoption will be legally ROCK SOLID.
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